You can pick up various gold nuggets of wisdom just by contemplating on this old proverb: “You are not what you think you are. You are not what other people think you are. You are what you think other people think you are.”
I know that you could have been already exposed to different affirmative techniques in all of the self-help books you browsed, but there is a twist that you can easily apply to boost their power and it is called as Reverse Affirmations.
In applying the Reversed Affirmations technique you would think “You find me irresistible,” and never “I am irresistible.” When you inform yourself “I am irresistible”, the rational part of you instantly rejects it.
It’s rejected because deep inside you do not yet believe it. But when you modify that around and think: “You find me irresistible,” and truly get into the strength of it, you’ll right away collect the benefits and feel the statement as true. Why?
Because your mind could possibly not be able to trust it coming from you, but it will easily accept the idea of it emanating from someone outside! Bottom line is you don’t have total control what other people might assume and think therefore bypassing your mind’s logical process.
Well, you might say it is just a sham that they know deep inside they are not really irresistible. I say of course it is fake. Of course it is not true – not yet. The important thing is…it doesn’t really matter! It doesn’t weight so much if it’s not true right now.
What you personally think has nothing to do with it. Belief is not connected with it. What matters most is the thought – and thoughts are things that could greatly affect your body, your individuality, and your responses just like a shot to your stomach can cause you to bend over in some pain.
Give this method a try: By the time you are talking to a man or woman you desire to attract, stare into their eyes and just begin thinking “You find me irresistible.” Get completely into it, and let that thought transform how you feel, how you are standing, how you are smiling, and observe what happens.
You can very much utilize this good technique to enhance and communicate your Magnetic Sponsoring Personality when you are on the phone with a prospect, on a business presentation, team member, or conference call.
Here are some examples:
To Prospects: “You view me as an authentic magnetic leader.” “You can’t wait to join our business and work with us”.
To Downline Members: “You find me an excellent, accommodating mentor, and leader.” “You believe I’m the best sponsor on the whole world!” Etc…
Get into the entire process! Declare it with emotion and believe that it’s real! Try it a few times with all positive attitudes and you can expect your sense of energy and emotions surging and change to fit those statements and make them reality!
You can have a fascinating personality others would emulate!